10 Things to remember while talking to your crush
A lot of people have a crush. Talking to your crush can be very scary and quite intimidating. However, the pressure is off of you! This article will tell you valuable things that you need to remember while talking to your crush.
1. Nonchalantly approach him/her. Stay composed. Don't start freaking out and start screaming. You might scare the person away. Just because they're beautiful doesn't mean they enjoy hearing you scream in their face about their beauty. Try not to act too suspicious either.
2. Try to make eye contact and smile. Doing this will give you confidence and you will be able to hold your nerves. It will acknowledge your presence and let them know, "Hey! I'm here and interested!" Remember to smile; it will make you seem friendly and approachable. Try not to smile so long that it creeps them out, though.
3. Wait for your cue. If s/he acknowledges it with a similar nonverbal gesture, it's your cue to say, "Hey there. How are you?" or something along those lines. If s/he ignores you, give it up and walk away. S/he probably does not want to be bothered today. If they reply, start your conversation.
4. Talk about regular stuff. Try to talk about ordinary everyday things, things you would talk about to any other person. Ensure that the conversation has a significant purpose and you're not just chitchatting. Don't bother asking them about the weather or something boring.
5. Keep it brief. They don't have all the time in the world, and as much as they love to talk to you, they'd most likely rather not hear your life story. Talk for a couple minutes and then end the conversation. You may want to think of a backup thing to say before you ever meet a boy/girl, therefore you won't panic, and will already know what to say. If you really idolize this person, keep the conversation short, but never boring. Try to make it something they remember, considering they probably see hundreds of boys/girls a day.
6. If s/he compliments you, say "thank you." Don't be brash or conceited about yourself, because they don't know you either.
7. Remember if S/he is a person whom you don’t know completely yet: as much as we know their names and a bunch of other trivial information about them, we do not know them! Don't expect him/her to act upon your own expectations and impression of him, judging only from public information which may not be accurate at all.
8. Make sure that you close the conversation, not her/him. Don't talk for a long time if she/he doesn't seem interested. Example: "It was really nice talking to you, but I have to go.”
9. Remember to thank them even if they are not interested in you. If she/he obliges, say "Thank you" and walk away with a little wave.
10. Don't ask for a phone number or address in the first meet itself. They will most likely deny. They may feel like it is an invasion of privacy, and it will make the situation feel awkward. Even if you ask, don’t get mad if they won't give you their phone number or address. If she/he refuses, say "Oh well, that's okay. I still enjoyed meeting you. Have a nice day." A graceful ending is always best.
1. Nonchalantly approach him/her. Stay composed. Don't start freaking out and start screaming. You might scare the person away. Just because they're beautiful doesn't mean they enjoy hearing you scream in their face about their beauty. Try not to act too suspicious either.
2. Try to make eye contact and smile. Doing this will give you confidence and you will be able to hold your nerves. It will acknowledge your presence and let them know, "Hey! I'm here and interested!" Remember to smile; it will make you seem friendly and approachable. Try not to smile so long that it creeps them out, though.
3. Wait for your cue. If s/he acknowledges it with a similar nonverbal gesture, it's your cue to say, "Hey there. How are you?" or something along those lines. If s/he ignores you, give it up and walk away. S/he probably does not want to be bothered today. If they reply, start your conversation.
4. Talk about regular stuff. Try to talk about ordinary everyday things, things you would talk about to any other person. Ensure that the conversation has a significant purpose and you're not just chitchatting. Don't bother asking them about the weather or something boring.
5. Keep it brief. They don't have all the time in the world, and as much as they love to talk to you, they'd most likely rather not hear your life story. Talk for a couple minutes and then end the conversation. You may want to think of a backup thing to say before you ever meet a boy/girl, therefore you won't panic, and will already know what to say. If you really idolize this person, keep the conversation short, but never boring. Try to make it something they remember, considering they probably see hundreds of boys/girls a day.
6. If s/he compliments you, say "thank you." Don't be brash or conceited about yourself, because they don't know you either.
7. Remember if S/he is a person whom you don’t know completely yet: as much as we know their names and a bunch of other trivial information about them, we do not know them! Don't expect him/her to act upon your own expectations and impression of him, judging only from public information which may not be accurate at all.
8. Make sure that you close the conversation, not her/him. Don't talk for a long time if she/he doesn't seem interested. Example: "It was really nice talking to you, but I have to go.”
9. Remember to thank them even if they are not interested in you. If she/he obliges, say "Thank you" and walk away with a little wave.
10. Don't ask for a phone number or address in the first meet itself. They will most likely deny. They may feel like it is an invasion of privacy, and it will make the situation feel awkward. Even if you ask, don’t get mad if they won't give you their phone number or address. If she/he refuses, say "Oh well, that's okay. I still enjoyed meeting you. Have a nice day." A graceful ending is always best.
10 Things to remember while talking to your crush
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